Today I was leisurely reading...Scratch that-I was attempting to read Parents Magazine while being splashed by Wacky Zacky from the baby pool and being smothered by a dripping wet Zany Janie while she ran back and forth from the pool to my lap. That's when one of the articles seemed to jump out at me and smack me in the face-or was that the rubber ducky that Wacky Zacky threw at my face...Oh well, anyway it really made an impact on me. So much of an impact that when the whole Zany family was playing on the bed and the two monkeys slammed into me causing me to have my first bloody nose I didn't get mad. I wanted to share this information because for me it was exactly what I needed to read to help center myself.
The information below was taken from Parents Magazine September 2008 issue by Mary Mohler:
Memo to Mommy
You have a lot of lessons to teach your little one, but he has a few words of wisdom for you too.
*Stop freaking out about the mess! There's always time to clean-but how often do we get to make mud pies?
*Be patient, I do everything for a reason, but I don't know enough words yet to give you an explanation.
*Let me do it. I know you can do it faster and better, but sometimes experience is the best teacher.
*Don't expect too much of me. I want to do what you ask and make you happy, but I'm still little.
*Don't try to reason with me when I'm having a tantrum. Trust me-I can't hear you over my own screaming.
*Keep your promises. It's all about trust. When I'm a teenager, you'll understand why it's so important.
*Don't keep asking me if I've been good. I'm not even sure what that means, but if I was bad I'd never admit it.
*Don't let me think that you're perfect. I feel a lot better knowing I'm not the only one who makes mistakes sometimes.
*Set limits. I can't actually eat a whole box of cookies-I just want to see if I'd get away with it.
Zany thought of the day: When was the last time you read or heard something that was the exact thing you needed to hear to deal with a situation?
*Stop freaking out about the mess! There's always time to clean-but how often do we get to make mud pies?
*Be patient, I do everything for a reason, but I don't know enough words yet to give you an explanation.
*Let me do it. I know you can do it faster and better, but sometimes experience is the best teacher.
*Don't expect too much of me. I want to do what you ask and make you happy, but I'm still little.
*Don't try to reason with me when I'm having a tantrum. Trust me-I can't hear you over my own screaming.
*Keep your promises. It's all about trust. When I'm a teenager, you'll understand why it's so important.
*Don't keep asking me if I've been good. I'm not even sure what that means, but if I was bad I'd never admit it.
*Don't let me think that you're perfect. I feel a lot better knowing I'm not the only one who makes mistakes sometimes.
*Set limits. I can't actually eat a whole box of cookies-I just want to see if I'd get away with it.
Zany thought of the day: When was the last time you read or heard something that was the exact thing you needed to hear to deal with a situation?
6 comments:
that last Zany thought is a good one - and will be floating around in my head for a good while now. Thanks, a lot, I needed that! [grrh]
After reading your posts, I oscillate between being happy I have no kids, to missing the whole experience! Sounds like you're getting good advice.
What a great post. I'm going to share it with a new mum!
I could have used that article when my son was younger! But I think most of it still applies :) Thanks because it made me smile!
Thanks, Zany! I needed that. I posted the article to my blog also (hope you don't mind), and linked it to yours.
Hearing your parenting experiences helps me know I'm not alone!
I LOVE the way you write about your experiences with your wee one's. Wish someone had said/written this to me when I graduated from high school, and then again a few times until my 1st was born.
Right on!
~Lily
Hello again. I meant to answer your question.
The red flower is a Bromelaid. This one was particularly beautiful and growing wildly around my frinds fathers yard on he river. Here is a link for you:
http://www.bromeliads.info/
xo,
~Lily...again :o)
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